The Best Brand Gift Ever!
2. The gift of throwing in the towel ... the towel that really doesn't matter. I greatly admire Bob Goff. He's an author, an attorney and founder of Restore International, a nonprofit human rights organization. He wisely shares: "I used to be afraid of failing at something that really mattered to me, but now I'm more afraid of succeeding at things that don't matter." With that in mind, Goff makes it a habit to quit something every Thursday. It liberates him for new things. What can you be simply done with?
3. The gift of margin ... build in white space ... everywhere! Dr. Richard Swensen, a physician-futurist, educator and author, advocates for purposefully creating mental, emotional, physical and spiritual breathing room in our full-to-brimming professional and personal lives. He calls it margin—like the white space around pages of books. He counsels that we need it more than ever. Appropriately saying NO gives us more white space.
4. The gift of focus ... just say no ... perhaps three times or more! Steve Jobs, Apple's brilliant and passionate founder, shared this: "Focusing is about saying no. You've got say no, no, no. The result of that focus is going to be some really great products where the total is much greater than the sum of the parts."
5. The gift of eliminating even more non-urgent and unimportant time fritters. Stephen Covey, author of "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" cautions us to be careful of defaulting too often into what he calls Quadrant 4 of his time management matrix ... the place we naturally drift after spending lots of time in urgent and crisis modes: trivia, busywork, mindless surfing. Just say goodbye to all the nonessentials.
6. The gift of stopping ... count the ways. Jim Collins, author of "Good to Great," encourages us to create STOP DOING LISTS. That's right ... enumerate all things you are no longer going to do. Start by simply saying no to his Venn diagram of three crucial things-activities that are you are not deeply passionate about, that you feel you are not genetically encoded for and things that don't make much economic sense.